Hey Zec! Whatever I'd have to say at first, you are way too much obsessed of your own either your thinking! I doubt someone could be powerful enough these days to read your message in whole... However, I was, and there I'll reply some things...
her family and friends did not have a problem with my color, matter of fact it waa just the oposite of what you are saying
I never said my words could be the only true - but let's not forget, that you also have just a private case, and nothing related to generic issues or common knowledge...
If you really live in Latvia, you know that men are a shortage and with most men in Latvia (Latvian and Russian) they know that they can go after many women even when they are in a relationship or married, because there is always another woman trying to pull him away from a relationship that he is presently involved.
I really live in Latvia, and I know it quite well what you say about
most Latvian Men are dogs (players of women) and they know that most of the women there are desparate to find a man and to get married
I'd say there's much difference to Dogs and Slaves; so if you think most men are Dogs here... well, may be you are right - I don't know what MOST of men are about, I just know about the circle of my friends, and they are NOT Dogs, definitely!!
That is not a single stroke observation, that is a FACT.
It's an unconfirmed fact, you know. It's a "fact" only in your saying. Nothing more than that. What you're experiencing from your local conversations, could not be ever facts.
they can not find a man and if they do get a man, he is 90% of the time in another relationship
It's only about your own
girlfriends, and that's definitely NOT a fact
. As I know from my own experience, such girlfriends being older than 30 and still couldn't find their personal
men, do have their own problems
. That's a true story of our modern world - we could criticize each other a lot, but if we speak to ourselves, we are too weak to recognize our own sins.
It doesn't only affect Latvia. It could affect any other country in the World. You know, most of people have "defects" - in their speech, or their look, or some of their very deep internal being. People are not perfect, in general. That's why, when we're trying to find our partners, it's a very rare chance to find someone you would truly enjoy in years. That's a big luck. And that's about more than 11 milliards people on Earth - so you have a chance, 1 from 11,000,000,000 - it's not even a lottery - it's closely to impossible!!! That's why people meet and split all the time. Just maths.
It is amazing to see so many beautiful women that are just looking for honesty and love.
Again, you are too subjective
"Amazing" could be different to different men. Men actually are not fools. They have deep instincts, and they choose their women following their instinct, not a fact. And the basic instinct, is to have kids. If a woman is too weak or not prepared for such a role of being a mother, then a clever man would likely never choose her as his partner. That's a thing I discovered quite quickly in my life
I have seen many that are getting older, just get pregnant so that they can have a child and say that it is not the best situation but at least I have a kid, even if the people there will look down on her for having a kid and not being married.
A cold fact, but it is. Well, but is it truly just in Latvia? I think that's a generic tendency in the whole world now. And it's quite regular and usual. Nothing to wonder at... Hopefully I've explained above why it happens so.
My girlfriend showed me this and she said, this is what the women of Latvia have to deal with everyday.
I have read this all, and I think, it's not about your girlfriend's "business contact" ;) Now let's take a look at yourself: you are reading personal messages of your potential wife.... which is ALLOWING to read such messages to you!.. For me it would be quite not normal case. First of all, I'm a person and my husband is also a person. We don't read messages of each other.
If I'm curious to know some message arrived from someone I don't know, I would ask my partner directly about it. And hopefully, always HE will response with a True Information. The same is about Me.
I'm not just sure what your relationship is about, but it seems unusual
So, your "just-a-girlfriend" shares some messages dedicated to her from another man, and you accept them, and make her drive in a different way... So whatever you say at first in your message, looks like it would be ALL about you, too!
Married men and men with girlfriends that want to have flings outside of there relationships.
Nah-nah, it's not about what you have described ;)
The dumb thing is that these same women get upset when they have a man and the man that they took from another women does the same thing to them and start to cheat with other women.
It's a nice LOOP OF RELATIONSHIP you have drown, but... do you TRULY believe in what you are just expecting
? I suppose, women CAN NOT be so wasteful in their relationships. Women also have instincts, and women basic instincts ARE about KIDS
. Women couldn't be involved in such loops because of instincts. That's a thing about all women I believe and possibly know and I dearly like to ask all women around the world...
I actually don't believe it could be a FACT, it's just kind of local chain of your relationship you're having... All of my girlfriends could just say the opposite - they must FIGHT for their men so other women don't take them out of their lives
Now I will say that the Latvian women (Latvian and Russian) are loyal and they just want to have a family with a man that will stand with them and just live there lives. They want to see a man that will be by them all the time and not get drunk all the time and spend time with there women and kids.
Here you have almost kind of true... why almost?.. That's you'd need to force by yourself
Latvian women are beautiful but if you look deeper into their hearts, you will find everything that you are looking for in a wife.
Here, I'd appreciate your message for 101%
NOT ALL MEN are just there for that reason that you pointed out. Yes you have your jerks that are there for one thing but you will find that in any country.
Definitely. I agree. We're here on these forums exactly to correct the common opinion.
Thanks a lot for making this bold.
Any women that would consider dating a foreigner white or black are considered dirty or she was a prostitute and she met a man that she liked. That is the mindset in Latvia when it comes with the older generation.
Again, it's the opposite to your thoughts... You couldn't take care about the older generation and their thinking, because you are now
and carrying on of youngest generation, as supposed. So why would you take care of what the older generation would think of?.. They should not take care of you or your wife, or your kids... they have given you a LIFE, you should continue it, and you continue it... that's all they should know about - isn't that enough?.. And, if some women "are considered dirty or she was a prostitute and she met a man that she liked"
- wouldn't you think they are different things? ..
And if you go to the smaller towns which I consider just larger villiages like Liepaja.
is a village from your end?
now they have a understanding that we are together and they stopped all that stupid talk
I could be jealous to you after that message. Because I'm not that men. But... how could you actually know who's jealous and who's not?
the town found out that we are getting married soon and then they started to ease up on the stupidity
I suppose, you're kidding now. How would the whole TOWN would know You are getting married?Are YOU both
coming from the Yellow Press Stars now?
Just remember going to the smaller towns, you get smaller minds.
Not at all
Going to the smaller towns, you get bigger ambitions and even bigger minds
Riga is not to far from being small minded but they see more foreigners there so they have a better tolerance of what they see and just continue on there way, you will have some that will say something, but the best thing to do is to just stand your ground.
Is Riga small minded??? Come on
Riga is all through MAFIA
in all meanings.
And Mafia, will be always Tolerant to show your own place. Either You agree with It or not - it doesn't depend on how You'd perceive Mafia; it's more up how you perceive your own place...
We spend most of our time with her daughter and son in Jurmala...
OMG ...daughter and son??? No more comments
But what I have said about the men in Latvia is absolutely true.
I'm personally, truly desperate on your opinion here.
But I couldn't consider it as TRUE because it it not TRUE, I hope you've got what I'm about THANK YOU for sharing such a big and advanced message!