will be working hard to get a Latvian goodness

I am a native Shanghai boy who is 20 years old now.Lativian girls are renowned in the world for their elegent and noble quality.I think they are elaboratly designed by God.I think everyone who want to date a Latvian girl should show his diligence and intelligence and try to be the best.So in my future days,I decide to try my best to get high degree,study hard,work hard,earn hard,for I know only the most excellent and obedient guy(to his girl friend) has qualification to date a Latvian godness.To be frank,the are my dream!After I post-graduate and have several years experience of working,(I guess I am28 years old then),I will try my best to find oppotrunity to approach one.It's my honor to serve for Latvian girl.Wish God bless me this oppotrunity.

yuta
I know that men looking love on the Internet are losers,but Latvians girls are so few in Shanghai.More importantly,I will show I am not a loser,for loser has no qualification to talk with Latvian girls and see Latvian girls directly.

yuta
Maybe in Latvian girl's eyes,I am only a guy who can only boast.But fact can prove evrything,and I swear that I will realize it.

So far I have only one question to ask: how did you come to that knowledge of Latvian girls? I mean, some friend told you about them... or did you read about them somewhere... curious to know

You will wonder to know, but many Latvian men feel otherwise comparing to you - they like Chinese girls I know few people who moved to live in Shanghai. Honestly, Shanghai in whole costs more than Latvia at once. Not sure why would you like to move to a poor country from the Empire of World Production.

yuta
Actually I am interested in European culture and history,so sometimes I like to find some information on the Internet when I am free.When I search the item of Latvia,I found much stuff about Latvia girls.Out of curiousity,I read many of them,then I conclude that in general Latvian girls are highly-educated,elegent,charming,noble,home-caring.I think these are the best qualities for a wife.In addtion,the smile of Latvian girls also make me relaxed.
You just said that many Latvian men like Chinese girls.As far as I know,many Latvian men like to drink a lot.I can ensure that if some chinese boy behave like this,he would not be accepted by his chinese girlfriend.
And I don't think Latvia is a poor country.As far as I know,Latvia enjoy a long history dating back to medieval times.I have seen some pictures of Latvia on the Internet,they are truly amazing.In addition,a true love should takes root in loving each other but in where you live,a poor place or a rich place.
If you have some knowledge about China,you must have known that China is so large that different people from different parts of China have different values.Shanghai is the center of Wu-China.In Wu-China values,men are supposed to work hard and be nice to his wife.Especially in Shanghai,it's taken for granted that Shangnese husbands should be obedient to his wife and shoulder the responsibility of working hard to supporting a family,raising a child as well as wash dishes.My father always tells me to try to be the best,influenced by this,I always lead a regular style of living and studying,never smoking&seldom drinking(that's the basic thing)But my shortage is that I will be shy and awkward when seeing a girl I love....
I think I am too young now,I am only 20 years old.In some aspects,I am still a little navie.Maybe I can have qualification to date a Latvian girl several years later when I have higher degree,good job and bright future.
Finally,if I really have one oppotrunity to get a Latvian girl,whether I should live in Latvia or living in Shanghai depends on her not on me.After all,it's important to respect girl's opinion.

Well said... nothing to comment

Yes, I know a bit about big China. In the different parts of the country, you also have a different language or dialects That makes this country really crazy to discover.

Thank you for your story. It's very interesting to read! But it makes me obvious that nowadays Latvian priorities in relationship change dramatically in years. It appears that in Wu-China you have a pure American model of living, with the difference that in US it's a woman's task to wash dishes root americans also love to work hard, it's their sense of living actually.

But in Latvia, we have a bit of other "model". Often, it happens that a woman works harder that a man, but gets a smaller salary. Smoking/drinking is very popular amongst our men, and not only adults: many kids start to smoke even while they are learning in the basic school. This also affects not only boys - girls/women as well. Latvia is a smoking country, despite of the tobacco taxes raising over last years (1 pack of cigarettes costs now about 3-4 EUR), it didn't make cigarettes less popular or purely sold. Also, Latvia is alcohol-manufacturers lobbied country. In any shop the showcase of alcohol bottles will be few times bigger than the showcase of bread or milk. Our people drink A LOT, not saying we have the abnormal situation with illegal drugs like marijuana or "legal mixes".

Each year, the population of Latvia dramatically increases, so actually, we need people like you. Who didn't lose the feeling of working hard, who cares about family, who want to build a honest relationship. Nowadays it's a rarity, so you have all chances

It's not a joke - but many of us, my friends and partners, often discuss the question of the possible "China-invasion" to Latvia, or at least Eastern nations invasion. We have more than 65,000 sq.meters of lands, but less than 2 mln. people living here, i.e. 30 people per 1 square kilometer (free land!); in China you have almost 5 times bigger concentration - 140 people per 1 sqare kilometer of land, so... we have lots of free space, and less people, we have all ground for a nice living in the European area... further, depends on you

Also, if you would like a good girl, don't try to look for her via Internet, dating sites etc... it's my honest advice to a honest man better come to Latvia and feel it from the inside. You will watch the difference... wish you good luck in it.

Oh well, not always a Latvian girl may be "highly-educated,elegent,charming,noble,home-caring" - but at least we are trying to be

yuta

Yeah,that's true,and I think many people in the world(Europe,North&South America,Africa....) drink a lot,smoke,and somtimes take drugs,I don't konw whiether it's true or not.I am now in Gent,Belgium for an internship for 4 months.Just two weeks after I come here,one African student took me to the dancing pub.When I ask him what's pub?He looked at me with surprise,and ask:"You never dance?"After coming there,I see many things that I have never seen in Shanghai.Youngsters as old as me(including girls) are all heavily drunk and dance to a single and weird melody,many of them were taking a cigarette.The most shocking scene is that I saw four girls(three Flemish,one French)were heavily drunk , danced with black guys and even kissed by them.I don't know why how can they even don't value themselves...I don't want to be a raciast,but I must admit that many black guys are lazy,good at hooking girls,sometimes have AIDS with themselves,for they have done much this sort of stuff in Shanghai,esp. in Guangzhou(You can serach on gogle)...I think all of this is the result of the culture revoluntion in 60s,one slogan at that time is"make love but war"...
Although Shanghai(Wu-China) is a little westrnized,but at least for me,I am only interested in traditional European culture,music and so on,esp.calculus and computer engineering(for that's my major),European's way of relaxing is not my thing...
I can fully understand what Latvians think of"China invasion",I also don't want other people(esp. blacks..)to invade China,but I really cannot prevent me from liking Latvian girls,they are too attracted to me.I hope you can understand me.
I think that the best choice for me is to earn as many as I can to buy a property in Latvia.At that time,if I successfully got a Latvian girl's love,we can live anywhere we want...work in Shanghai or relax in Latvia...very romantic life style.You konw,I really want to study,listen to relaxing music with one my beloved girl,and make dishes for her.
But I really fear that I will be old(35?..) after I finish my targets,and that time girl there even don't want to glance at me....so sometimes I feel very frustrated when thinking of these...If God let me choose,I will choose to be born in Latvia.

yuta
I addition,can you generalize what kind of men do Latvian girls like most?I will try to be...

never give up. and be prepare for language well

If possible, I will reply instead of yuta... just wondering, how many questions answered and topics covered we have on these forums. Oh well, we already have the same discussion here:

What kind of men Latvian girls like?

Anyway, I am ready to forgive you what I am not forgiving on these forums often.
Your messages are really interesting to read and know what do you feel. It seems China and Shanghai are really the other planet. Yuta will come here tomorrow and confirm my words.

Keep on.

Wow! It seems you were having a hard "training" from your parents Honestly I can't believe that in such large industrial and political city like Shanghai there would be no bars or discotheques. I've just looked for "shanghai night club" in Google and found tons of immediate links offering this. So it appears, you just coming from the family with another values. It's not up to the European "culture" in whole. BTW, if you are in Belgium, you have a hand mile from Netherlands, where you could feel the really "free" side of life


that is true... single and weird melodies are part of our modern "culture" I would say, these melodies can't use more than 3 notes at once


Yes! That's a great tension, and many girls would appreciate it. However after going through this stage of relationship, about 10 years ago I understood, that family values stand on the other side comparing to romantics. The first 2-3 years may be fine; however if you want kids, and if you get kids, the life and the perception of life will change fast. Be prepared to it Latvian girls are educated in the non-stable system, we have 50% families with no father, many divorce on the 2nd year of living... Sometimes I am thinking that Latvian land has kind of bad energy regarding this


Oh well, what a brave saying! I think you must first come here to conclude, what it is about... investigate property question, taste the weather... It always appears, that it's best to live there where we don't currently live. But it's not always true.

I was remembering my views of China which I saw on pictures, and truly I was impressed by one picture showing kind of "Emperor's" gallery or something like this. Unfortunately, don't remember the exact names and titles, but it looked like when Emperor was going to die, he let his workers to build THOUSANDS of sculptures of warriors, which would protect him "in the other world". It was the whole ARMY of stoned warriors, there was not enough zoom to fit them all on one picture. Can't even imagine how many people were involved in preparing those sculptures! Because EACH OF THEM looked SIMILAR to each other! There were thousands of similar copy sculptures! Can't imagine how it was done...

But after that I've concluded, that China has kind of truly slavery model of state. That's why I am not wondering about your views. My parents were living in USSR and there was something similar. But who knows what's better: a "free" drinking/smoking/f*cking world, or "slavery" working/organized/having a goal world. Who knows

yuta
I will strive to fuifill my life targets.Maybe I can find a job in Latvia in future,I don't know whether lack computer engineering students...or some jobs about Chinese language...

wang
C'mon pal, stop being a virgin and find your girlmate As Soon As Possible

I was in China once, incl. Shanghai where we ordered some meals and visited kind of night club full of young Chinese chicks. I've just Googled for pictures (we didn't make our own because we didn't take the camera with for SECURITY reasons) - and there are tons of pictures showing that it's only your personal world you live in. Chinese girls drink, smoke and fuck like any other. I would say - while China raising in freedom times, they are doing it with much more pleasure than Latvian girls

Just look at those pics - do you want to say that you NEVER been in such type of clubs in Shanghai? Astonishing... then how do you spend your life. Ha-ha

Only SLAVES work FOREVER!

Bro
I think that there are many reasons I don't go there....
First,judging from their disgusting clothes and typical apperance,I can conclude that most of them are from some unpopular places of China,maybe Henan,Anhui,Subei and so on.In Shanghai(Wu-China),they are called "YP",normally,we even don't want to touch them,not to mention date them.And most Shanghai parents will not allow their children to marry a YP girl.I can ensure that my local female friends never smoke,seldom drink,and maybe never go to the night club...Howerver,We will never have some opinions if foreigners want to hook them..for in our views,they are losers and whores doomed to be eliminated.They are Chinese shame.
Second,I feel satisfied about my style of spending my life.I admire Japanese style of fighting,they will never surrender and will fix the Bayonet charging when last bullet was fired,but Chinese and European troops don't do it..I feel very ashamed of it..But at least,I will try my best to achieve this...You must have known that if Shanghai student want to enter a good university they have to be very busy before 18 years old.And if he want to continue study to be a post-graduate student he will be occupied by tasks again,and then if he want to hunt a good job...................so,I firmly hold that girls like industrious gentlemen but naughty playboys.In addition,we shoulder the responsibility of saving our land,China will be humiliated by USA if we don't strive....
Third,The Bible have said sex is not allowed before marriage....not mention to have sex with black people
Fourth,aftering get knowledge anout traitional Germanic(includeng Anglo-American)values only respect,they only respect strongers,so they fear Germen and Japan,chinese are not black who can be humiliated anywhere at any time,at least Wu Chinese,we will not Un-Fix Bayonet before enjoying the same status as USA.