Thank you,yuta,I feel very delighted to talk with you.
I just come back from my travel to Luxemburge.
You shall try to understand that you must be different, not better! Then you have more chances to deserve an attention...
That's true I think.In Europe,you can see many blacks guys date white girls and it's said that they are welcomed by girls in Europe.I think the reason is that they are different.They can do many things that I completely cannot,such as basketball,rock,jazz,hip-hop,guitar and etc.In addition,they appear more talkative and confident.As far As I know,in Europe girls don't care about money that much.If you have stable income and youare different,that's OK.But in China,esp. in Shanghai.Most girls and their mothers wuold ask the following question:
1.What's your job? 2.How much do you earn per month? 3.Do you have property , How lagre is it and where is it located? 4.Which diploma do you have and where do you graduate? 5.Where do you live?(If you live in poor areas in China but you want to marry one from rich areas,99% you maybe declined)(6.Whether you are good-looking 7. Your interests and hobbies)that's always not that important.....
I get very tired of this....Well,I want to serve girls, but I don't want to confront a machine everyday.What I need is true love....But after living under such kind of machinism,sadly I become too normal
.To be frank,except school,I almost cannot do anything that I have referred just now.So...maybe if I meet a girl,what I can talk with her is only limited in maths,computer software and etc...
From my youth,my parents always told me that if you want to be a winner in Shanghai,what you should care about is your career but interests.This is to say,you should make yourself to learn what can make you earn much but what you are interested in.I have to admit what my parents told me is true and another fact is that a good career and income is always connected with girls.
Although Shanghai(or Wu-china)is not that different from Latvia in economy,but what people think is truly different.I appears Shanghai students are more busy.That's why in Shanghai clubs,you rarely see local students,and I think most of them are foreigners,chinese losers or chinese cheap chicks.To be honese,it's not a good place to meet girl in Shanghai.In fact,I am a little envy the European or Ameriacan life style.The students in Europe,USA and south America(everywhere except East-Asia)can enjoy life and weekends well there.